Just a few comments...
IH cylinder heads were never plagued by seat erosion/recession/etc. Created by the industry conversion to low-lead/unleaded fuels circa 1975. Your machinists is drawing parallels with typical chryfordrolet shit and ya simply cannot do that, I say this over and over! No doubt he has not much/no experience in doing IH stuff which are truck/industrial engines.
But what you are seeing with the eroded seats is due to neglect (acidic erosion) and water having been in that engine.
Also...some sv engine variations used "inserted" valve seats on the exhaust side oem, as well as positive exhaust valve rotation (such as a roto-cap). Again, these engines are not "all the same".
A three angle valve job simply is a methodology to properly locate the valve face/seat contact patch in the proper location when seats and valves have been re-faced. That procedure is how the seat location is manipulated during final inspection/assembly and is the difference in a correct cylinder head reconditioning vs. Simply having the "valves ground".
That process can also be enhanced by doing an "interference" cut also. The interference cut is determined by the type of valve seat/valve face equipment is being used, whether it's a "grinding" process (stone dressing) or a "cut" process (such as using a neway system).
If the existing seat(s) have not been previously cut all to shit, then they have an indefinite life-span on IH stuff. Installing a hard seat insert is a method of repairing (reclaiming) a head and is not needed on any IH head except to reclaim a non-func head that no longer has a seat area that can be reconditioned. And ya don't need to do all of 'em, only the one that needs it! But normally we never get into this kinda mess because the heads are cracked which is a whole other deal! Cracked heads in the combustion chamber are definitely an issue with IH shit.
Regarding any valve/head reconditioning process, the most important aspect is correcting the "installed valve height" after the seat and valve cuts are completed. Other wise, what ya end up with is too little/no pre-load on the lifter, or a lifter that is collapsed. Much of the "lifter click" noise that folks piss about is caused by a "valve job" that was simply not done correctly. And IH motors are no different in that respect compared to any engine which uses a non-adjustable valve train.
When valve seat inserts are used in the machine shop in repair work, they May be in many forms and alloys of material and the material has to be compatible with the oem valve if it's being re-used, or with the replacement valve material. That is dependent upon the seat insert process the shop uses on a routine basis. The tooling and procedures for installing will vary with the type/design of the seat being used.
All this valve work is covered in surprisingly accurate detail in all versions of the IH shop manuals, including the process for repairing a head using valve seat inserts.
Has your machine shop dude addressed the valve guides yet??? That is the first thing that must be done, if a guide needs attention, it must be done before any other machine process is performed as the guide is the centerline reference for all other work.
Also...many machinists overlook the fact that the 196 and 392 motors use 30* intake valve face angles (as opposed to a nominal 45* angle)! So they jump right in and fuck everything up by cutting before they realize that!