mm, in regards to the hitch receiver, why don't you want it connected to the bed?
If the bed is bolted to the frame how would it differ from bolting the receiver to the frame?
Here's my position on this subject Mark...and some background:
in one of my former lives, I had a business involving wholesale/retail distribution and installation of all forms of towing products that were common in the mid-80's. Handled distribution for reese, draw-tite, sure pull (local operation out of blue mound, tx), and several other lesser-known brands.
I was very fortunate to be able to attend both reese and draw-tite distributor sales and technical training programs on several occasions, and also spend some time in one of the reese manufacturing facilities. This type training was imperative for myself and employees as we performed hitch installs for many oem truck dealerships in the dfw metroplex. If a new truck buyer wanted a tow package installed before delivery, we picked the rig up from the dealership, installed the options, and then returned the rig with all warranty paperwork in the glovebox.
Up to that point, I was just a consumer/user of receiver-type hitch products as I also had a sideline operation going involving load-out/transport of sailboats on a telescoping trailer with articulated bunks.
After participating in the various training programs and learning that bolt-on class II and iii receivers (those were the highest load capacity units available at that time, since then class iv and class v have been added) were actually a "torque-tube" in order to flex to more effectively absorb/distribute shock loads from the toad to the tow rig. And...all the ratings for these products were developed for "bolt-on" applications with no welding to the tow vehicle frame whatsoever!
Once a design is developed for a particular application, it's engineering then must be tested in accordance with:
vesc regulations
In order to be able to carry the common "v5" rating you see permanently stamped on various tow products.
Here's another interesting link regarding this subject which should really hit home for ya:
chapter 204-70 wac: standards for vehicle connecting devices and towing methods
A receiver system integrated into a truck bed or tow body no doubt can far exceed the minimum specifications called for the vesc regs. But those are not "torque-tube" designs either...and...unless the entire package was submitted for testing, will not carry the v5 designations.
And...because of the usually "high" fixed height of the bed-mounted receiver box, that means a seriously-long "drop" ball mount or "stinger" must be used to accommodate the wide range of trailer coupler heights. And long-drop stingers greatly reduce trailer load capacity in relation to the tow rig...seriously reduce the weight ratings!!
Long drop stingers cannot be used with an equalizer system by nature of design (and I personally think are very unsafe to use), and the fact that weight ratings must be decreased so significantly, they would not be usable in a safe manner with any modern "bumper-pull" trailer. Today...most equalizer heads are of the adjustable version which means they can be adapted for use on many tow rigs of varying receiver box height. In the old days, the ball height had to be set after much trial and error...then the equalizer head had to be set at an "angle" and welded to the drawbar by a certified welder. That meant that the typical consumer who had the ability to set this stuff up themselves, still had to have outside assistance to make the final setup. And when the tow rig was traded out or a different rig was used, the equalizer head would not effectively transfer.
Regarding the truck bed I'm using in this project, I'd have no problem using the receiver box for a pintle hitch setup though, as long as the toad with the lunette is properly loaded out. A typical pintle system does not use an equalizer.
That enuff bs and smokeblow for ya??