The kw kit doesn't come ready to use the ammeter. So you have to improvise some. Look at the pdf. It maps out the changes/additions I made. By splicing wire #16 and running the "+" post to the starter lug and letting the "-" post continue to the fuse box gives you an indication of the load placed on the battery. I didn't run the alternator wire (#15) through the ammeter though. It originates at the fuse box, and goes straight to the lug on the alternator. I thought about tying this wire to the "-" post too, but the kw docs don't show where the wires go once in the fuse box. I didn't want to melt anything, so I left it the way kw designed it.
If you try to use bigger wire, you'll have to take the fuse box apart and replace it. I have had no problems the way it is. But if it came with 8 gauge wire, I wouldn't complain.
And yes, you'll need to wire the alternator the way the kit spells out. No matter what you do with the ammeter, all the wires are needed.